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I feel so out of control. I am envisioning my new life, relatively joyless, sexless, lonely, and isolated.

And all of this angst and sadness is being experienced in secret. How does one handle heartbreak that is a secret?

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Do they delight in our presence? Do they see our beauty?

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If so, an image of ourselves as worthy and lovable is reflected back to us, and we begin to integrate it into a positive self-image. Children who lack this reflection experience heartbreak and grieve alone, because the adults they would normally share their inner worlds with are the very people they feel hurt by. As adults, many of them end up in marriages that resemble their childhood.

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Was girls room cheats therapist truly suggesting that you deceive your husband with a covert affair, or rather that you talk with him about the possibility of opening up the marriage and see if the two of you might find a girld way forward? Instead, you unilaterally decided to direct all of your sexual and emotional energy outside the marriage, making it even harder for your husband to connect with you on any level.

So how do you handle heartbreak that is a secret? You take away the secrecy.

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